So I shared this in my IG stories yesterday:
It was just a passing thought after listening to the May messages from @theoverflo and @innersunalchemy (on IG. Part of my soul family. If you feel so inclined, check them out.) So I typed it out and moved on...or so I thought. It's been on my mind heavy since then. For some of us the white picket fence, 2.5 kids, and a dog seems like a prison. Forever home? Whew, hives!!! For others of us, the 'fly by the seat of my pants with no plan' life is anxiety inducing to say the least. No savings account? Tf you mean?!?
But the thing is, this is your dream. Not your mama's, daddy's, best friend's, high school science teacher's. If things aren't going the way that you want them to, sit down and assess whether you are making decisions based on your own ideas or someone else's. You may choose a career path based on what you love to do as opposed to how much money you make. Your relationship dynamic may not be centered around the tenets of monogamy. Your religious practices may not be the same that you grew up in. Your nutritional lifestyle may have your ancestors rolling over in their graves, but this is your life. Dream big, and live tf out of it!